Some blog and birthday love

So today’s post is a birthday card of sorts 🙂

I thought I’d share some info on my #ecmeetup co-host Luchae and tell you “our story” (because she has been super emo and I’m hoping you guys will go over to one of her social media pages and share some love)

So I met Luchae through email, before social media was super big around these parts, before fb even (giving away ages here).

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All about “the big chop” with Des


Before and After

My awesome brainiac of a  cousin Desthea “Des” has recently decided to embrace the curl and cut off all her hair.

Des is really great, we get along like a house on fire. She is part mechatronics student, part paint/sketch artist, part photographer and completely crazy, which makes her even cooler 🙂
I chatted to her about what the big chop meant to her.

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How to make dress-up boxing gloves

So why make dress-up boxing gloves? Well, Aidan is at a “LIKE YOU” stage. He wants to do everything Rob and I do. This includes boxing.
Please be under no illusions that I’m like a boxing person now.

Rob bought me a speed bag and showed me how to use it for stress relief. He himself has a punching bag and now Aidy wants in on the action with his inflatable doll thing that comes back up when you punch it – you know the type.

To make it more realistic I decided to make him some “dress-up boxing gloves” from felt here is how:

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Reading my own obituary

It was my birthday yesterday and to be honest I’m one of those awkward birthday people. I’m never sure how to react to people being nice to me solely because I was born today…a few years ago.

Also I just don’t know how genuine any sentiment made through prompting from social media could really be.

This year I decided to stop being such a Debby downer (no offence to any optimistic Debby’s) and just take all the messages and calls and things as what they were “NICE”.
Except for the people who text HBD…that’s not nice…Dude how lazy are you?!? What’s HBD? Is that a tv channel? Is there a show on about lazy people?

My Dad’s family (his siblings and their kids) have a tradition that on birthdays we all get together and more often than not at least two people will get up and say why we as a family love and appreciate the birthday boy/girl (when Rob joined our family this freaked him out…He comes from a head nod, fist bump, love is implied family…so our sentimentality must have been very awkward).

Anyway yesterday I listened to those taking about me and decided to own their sentiments.

I decided to accept the compliments from my cousins and from friends calling,emailing,messaging and writing on my wall.

I decided to sift through the comments that felt “dictated by social norms” and read what message was coming through. “What would people be saying in my obituary?” and am I okay with that?
 I got a lot of words like inspiring and encouraging (stifle an eye roll) loads of creative and funny (whaaaat) and even a couple of beautiful’s thrown in (side eye)

I decided not to be a bully to Eleanor on her birthday this year so I didn’t tell her that people just say things for the sake of saying things…maybe some of those messages were not heartfelt but most of them were (I’d like to think) maybe I have inspired or encouraged perhaps my creativity and humor are pluses and in the right light (with the right filter hahaha)  I could be considered attractive.

I’m still uncomfortable with compliments, but this year I decided to own it! I work pretty hard at not being a jerk, so why shouldn’t I be okay with people saying…. good work on not being a jerk?

Anyway I’ve received some really heartfelt messages this year and think I’ll take it as a progress report…. I can always improve but the grade is not that sucky…

Thanks to everyone who made my birthday special. I appreciate you!!!

Party with Amber

Very excited to share another party with you guys!
Susan is a crafty mom (I know because the first time we chatted, she was reaching out about  craft supplies) who is generously allowing us to take a peek at her daughter’s second birthday party… here goes.

I looooooooooooooovvve all the little touches!!!


Name and age of birthday girl 
Amber celebrated her 2nd birthday on 20 Feb 2016

How did you decide on theme?
From very small Amber seemed to be able to identify and make the sounds of all farm animals, and were the first ones she was able to verbally name. It seemed fitting to make this her party theme as she so easily and enthusiastically identified with them.

DIY or shop bought?
A bit of both. I tried to do as much by myself as humanly possibly, but I draw the line at themed serviettes, paper plates and bunting! We held it at our house and I arranged all activities myself. I also made the party packs, birthday cake and cupcakes (with some help).

Any behind the scenes blunders?
Thankfully nothing…that I’m aware of at least.

 What was best part of the day? 
Watching all the kiddies have a good time and enjoying the activities I was stressing myself out over. Also the compliments I received from the other mom’s made all the hard work so worthwhile, as it clearly didn’t go unnoticed and was appreciated by all