1. I’d never let others’ opinions of me define me

 2. I was never embarressed by any aspect of “who I am” – for a while that was my accent as EVERYONE had an opinion…too prim and proper for some too “local” for others

3. I never cut my hair, miss my long locks

4. I never had to bury my son without having the chance to hold him

5. I never got in the habit of being so scatter brained

6. I never let someone (an ex) make me believe I wasn’t worthy of love

Seven things that cross my mind alot

This one is tough Im one of those people who always have a million thoughts in their minds…but here goes nothing…

1. Why are people so stupid-why do they say such hurtful things…I hope I’m not that stupid, If I was I hope people know I didnt mean to be

2. Why does my dad keep interupting me when I talk, if the conversation even hints at not being upbeat he just changes the subject, he’s been doing this for a while as a way to keep me from being sad I guess, but it’s getting super annoying

3. Am I in the right career, infact, what should I be doing with my life? is this it? I don’t know if I’m ok with this being it

4. Which statement is true, “God uses bad things in your life to test you” or “Bad things happen despite God’s involvement, but he is there to help you out”

5. Why am I so TIRED!!!!

6. Will I ever be in shape again, I know round is a shape, but it’s not my favourite

7. Why do bad things happen to good people and why do some people seemingly float through life on a bubble of goodluck?

Eight ways to steal my heart:

1. Say thank you, I’m one of those people that REALLY appreciates people showing appreciation
2. Be an adorable toddler, my nieces all have my heart no questions asked
3. Give me food ,it’s a well known fact that I respond well to being given snacks
4. Don’t treat me like an idiot, few things on earth annoy me as much as being spoken to like I’m slow on the uptake
5. Treat other people with respect, cocky arrogant attitudes make me want to puke
6. Don’t make stupid comments about my son, so many people do and I DO NOT APPRECIATE IT
7. Don’t make stupid comments about my current pregnancy,being too soon or a bad idea, you don’t know my heart. My husband, doctor and therapist are with me, your opinion is not needed.
8. Be Robin Damien Meyers,meaning; don’t be afraid to argue with me, be willing to apologise or to accept an apology, love me and make me feel respected, smart and beautiful and make me feel just that little bit stronger because you are near 🙂

9 things about me

– I’m Pisces, I don’t often read my horoscope,but if I do, I only believe the good things
– I’m a calorie counter, which annoys my friends-they still ask me how much this and that is though
– I finally got contact lenses 🙂 wearing glasses every day was getting to me
– I love planning things, it’s my thing! but I don’t necessarily want to attend said event, I’m boring like that
– I wear a really small shoe size and it annoys me so much I want to scream….
– I met Rob in person Dec 2007 and got married Dec 2008 (We quick like that)
– I’m extremely close to my family, my mom,sister,and two oldest cousins count as some of my best friends
– I really want to write a book about my experiences this last year
– I don’t have much patience with stupid people, or racist people, or annoying people or arrogant people

So I was chatting to fellow blogger and “cousin-in-law” today about how we love blog challenges and she sends me the following, challenge, it instantly caught my attention and this (below) is what I will be sharing with you guys for the next 10 days. . . you can follow mine here and Shay, on her blog

Day 1

Ten things you want to say to ten different people right now……

1. Mom:   Thanks for moulding me into the person I am 
2. Dad:  Thanks for always being there for me
3. Rob: You annoy me to no end,but you are the best decision I ever made
4. Logan: Mommy loves you and misses you more than you will ever realise
5. New baby: I pray every single day, for your safe arrival, cant wait to hold you and watch you grow
6. MIL: You are extremely insensitive and hurtful, I dont know if you realise it, but your words hurt!
7. Friends: You have been my strength through darkest days THANKS SO MUCH
8. Hurtful people: I forgive you for your comments and pray you gain understanding
9. Boss: Here is my resignation, I have just won the lottery and will stay at home from now on
10. God: Thankyou so much for carrying me through my darkest days and continuing to do so