Happy Birthday Sister Child

25 years ago today I went to pre-school super excited, in fact I didn’t want to go (yes I was only four but I have a crazy memory for certain things) The reason for my excitement? Well my “baby sister” was being born. I’m the eldest cousin on both sides of my family so getting an instant friend in the form of my cousin Ronethea was super exciting. Thing is we didn’t get along all that well, hehehe… she pulled my hair and blamed me for things I didn’t do while I wouldn’t share and found a little kid hanging around all the time, much less exciting than I initially thought. Over the years we have made each other so angry we would cry and laughed so hard we would cry (she’s a crier though so not that impressive, lol). We had a HUGE falling out a while ago but came back stronger than ever, now hardly a day goes by without us chatting (usually about which craft project we are involved in at the time) seriously we check in if the other one hasn’t said anything in a while, it gets so bad that we don’t have anything to say to each other in person because we have texted and emailed the whole week. We still don’t agree on everything (oil and water they called us growing up) but today I am so proud of her!!!  she has overcome great adversity, raises a child on her own while studying , running a small business and looking for a job, she is a true motivation and I’m so proud I could cry (see a recurring thing with us) I love you Ronethea even if you still make me roll my eyes now and again (I know you do the same at me,hehe)….
Cousins by birth – Friends by choice    . . . .  Happy Birthday lil sis

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Happy Monday peeps

I’ve been super emo and introspective lately…Like what is it I want from my life and so forth and so on. . .
Eish this happens every now and again…the curse of the creative I think, OVERTHINKER DELUX!!!
Went to the park with my lil family to clear my head, it helped a bit, sometimes you just need to chill…
HAPPY MONDAY ALL!

Our first trip as a family :)

We went on our first official family holiday this weekend and had A BLAST! I love game farms but have only ever gone to stay for work, so really wanted to share the experience with Rob & Aidy (yes Aidan didn’t care one way or the other) We opted for Kragga Kamma Nature Reserve because they promised luxury accommodation and animals right around our lodge ,it’s close and the reviews were great, also as game farms go it’s really not pricey AT ALL . Must say WE LOVED IT!!! The first eve already I noticed a rustling in the bushes outside our place and guess what, there was a herd (I think herd is right word-small family really) of Nyala just outside our lounge and we woke up to different foot prints in our front yard and giraffe watching us from a short distance away (Probably amused  by the wild haired woman rushing about to find the camera she swears she just had in her hand) It was so amazing. Aidan even stared in wide-eyed wonder and tried to call both zebra and giraffe to him like they were domestic pets and went silent with shock when these giant birds (ostriches) came to check out our braai (thank goodness we weren’t making ostrich steak, awkward much, hehehe  …We could do game drives whenever we felt like (except for after 6 because then the animals run the show-even more so than usual) walking away from your cabin/lodge and so forth is frowned on, GAME DRIVES people not GAME WALKS…they have a quaint yet sturdy bridge which connects the different accommodations and leads to the bush café it also leads to a cosy entertainment area where log cabins surround a fire pit, perfect for singing Kumbaya around a bonfire while making smores (if you are into that sorta thing)  We had so much fun!!!  
Will def go back when Aidan is bigger and appreciates it more also take friends with… The picture opportunities are amazing! See my pics attached (very chuffed with my nature shots)

Weekend piccies :)

It was our yearly family Christmas party this year, think it’s like the 16th one. It’s just a way for the family to exchange gifts and to usher in the holiday season. Always great fun!!!



My lil family

Aidan’s first time in a pool. HE LOVED IT!!!

Friday we had our office end of year party, here I am with Neo, Durelle and Robyn
Was a lot of fun hanging with them